Gals and Boys! Both, very much human, full of life and almost same intelligence level(no pun intended). No one is from Venus and no one is from Mars. It’s pretty much the same mother Earth. Both love to go to movies, have friends, good food, and get rendered with good education. So what sets them apart besides the XX and XY combos of chromosomes?
Well, I tell u , the Almighty played with us by providing two, almost identical machines who intake food, oxygen, water and education in same volume but produce very different characteristics of behaviour, emotions, temperament (wildly substantiated by their shopping frequencies). Let’s unravel how the species add spices to life which otherwise would have been a humdrum without a proper mix.
Some facts:
1)Two boys can complete a journey without opening their lips and it needs a feviquick for the fairer version.
2)Two gals can make a mussy hostel a home, while a single boy is enough for the reverse.
3)Gals feel more concerned during the last years of their education(parents pressure), while boys feel more liberated unless tied down by neck belt by… :P
4)Gals are after boys and boys are after gals. One is always in the hunt of one level more and that makes the story more interesting and lively. (The rule is called “flight for greed”.)
5)True love exits and I believe in the principle of unlike charges attract each other.
6)Gals breathing same levels of oxygen till date show more level of responsibility and maturity. But even guys can show when entrusted but are no volunteers.
7)Dressing sense: It has to be matching for gals, while for boys it has to be just covering.
8)Boys can be better cooks (credit to innate skills) but gals turn out to be more consistent ones.
Both gals and boys want to strike a conversation with each other. Initially one shows attitude and other reverts it with interest and net result: Intensity to converse grows(if the level equation matches and flight to greed is satisfied else the battle is lost b4 the start) Most of the times the pity version(boys) give up(to break the ice) and then starts the game of master and slave(not the circuit version of electronics). But ideally, it's the game when one needs support and other lends the helping hand and the connect evolves. I believe that's what we call friendship.
Quarrels are part and parcel when such friendship begins. That’s perfectly alright and as I said above, boys have some qualities which don’t resonate with gals and it takes some time to settle. But the funny part is when both have such a fight, one becomes the dog and other turns into a bitch. I wonder how fast humans change races and even genes. Now the bridging exercise is required which boys are pathetic at and gals egos’ play the deterrents :P(can be viceversa). So the story hangs in between earth and sky, but as of now it’s a bye.
Chao, tc folks!!!
Yours truly,
Life Unplugger.
